1. When one person stops trying.
2. When both stops trying.
3. When there is no balance in giving and receiving love.
4. When one starts to question his/her self worth in the relationship.
5. When one feels there is no need to impress anymore.
6. When they forget that love is about making it work. Not just falling in love and la la la everything is beautiful. When someone hands you a seed, you've gotta water it and give it adequate sunshine and space in order for it to grow into a healthy tree. You've gotta work to keep that love burning. Not expect it to burn on its own.
7. When you start expecting him/her to do something for you. No one is supposed to do anything for anyone.
8. When you overlook the small details (which normally is super duper important) that matter.
9. When you harp on the other person's mistakes and make him/her feel terrible, when you should've given him/her all the support in the world. In short, don't kick shit or laugh into a friend's face when he/she is already in a shit hole. Pull him/her out from the crap hole. Help him/her clean off the mess. Help him/her back on their feet. AND PLEASE, don't say "I TOLD YOU SO". If you do that to me, "I. KILL. YOU!" (with Achmed the Dead Terrorist's voice)
10. When one is no longer trustworthy.
I remember watching an Entertainment News some time ago, and Donnie Yen was being interviewed on his secrets to a blissful marriage.
His answer was simple: "唔好计较咯" which means don't be calculative.
It's true. The only thing that you're supposed to count, is your blessings :)
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